let’s talk sex: 2: Sex: Pleasure or Torture?

Hey people, it’s another Thank-God-it’s-Friday and we are at Let’s talk Sex chat post again.

How’s the week been for you? Already on your way home after putting in a hard day? Whatever the case, get in here, relax and let’s have fun.

We had our first Let’s talk Sex talk last week and it was on Kissing. It was a revealing post and I fainted under one comment. It was that “informative”… lol.

Well, with everything in life, it’s different strokes for different folks. One man’s meat, many times, can be the other man’s menace. Some like sugar, others prefer honey and yet others can’t stand the sweet taste.

So… Sex: Pleasure or Torture?

I don’t want to rule the roost on this matter, so I’m going to step out of the way and allow everyone in. Let’s all get in on this. And I want us being plain God’s-own-truth honest. It’s Let’s talk Sex: No holds barred… So say it like you mean it.

But… let’s ease off on the eff-word. Sex is sex. That’s the word for it, so let’s like big boys and girls own it… No kinky terms please.

Right. That’s out of the way.

There are quite a few things that can sex torture. Not everyone enjoys it. I hope we know that. For some folks, it’s just a drag and let’s-get-itover-it and for some others, it’s plain I-can’t-stand-it torture. And there can be just about any reason for the adverse attitude. Could be abuse, bad-sex first experience. Some say, asexual… there are many reasons.

And then we have the can’t-get-enough-of-it crew. It’s not food, they know, but they can’t stay long without it.

Humans… all different.

Which crew do you belong to: can’t stand it? Or can’t get enough of it?

Okay, maybe I can’t entirely stay lips-sealed on this. So, I’m going to say that the one man I’ve enjoyed sex with is the one married to now.

Nah, nah, nah, I’m not fibbing. This is God’s own truth. He gets me there. Simple. But… I am not a sex freak. Can stay year… long years without it, if I have to. I know, TM is an odd creature. Lol. But that’s just me. Sometimes I can be: O lawd, I’m coming home. And others times, I’m like: Dearest, can we take a raincheck?

What about you?

You like it? Love it? Or… Can’t stand it?

Share your sex love or hate with us and while you’re at it, have a banging Thank-God-it’s FRIDAY!

Next week, we’ll be talking Sexonsibility. My coined word for: Sex Responsibility.

Y’all have a great weekend.


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13 Responses to let’s talk sex: 2: Sex: Pleasure or Torture?

  1. Candyberry says:

    Sex sex
    To be sincere I don’t crave having sex any longer. Since I found out that some men I have been with keeps otherGirls for the same sex we still have.
    I can go without sex for more than a year now.

    But prior to that I enjoy having sex….until my eyes opened if you might say
    Although what contributed to my dull sex drive is when my boo said I too like sex…since then I can go on and without any sexual contact.

  2. Candyberry says:

    Benefits of keeping to time. I loaded the 100 naira airtel on my sister’s photo. Thanks
    Her phone can’t comment but she is an addict to your blog like me
    Shout out from her from her dummy phone

  3. FavouriteShades says:


    I don’t do sex as I believe it should be kept for within the boundaries of marriage but I plan to be #TeamCantGetEnough ,torture keh?no oh

    And that’s how I went and missed free credit…oh well…there will be a next time

  4. mystiq says:

    Sex has never been my thing.. .Maybe when I get married il feel different

  5. mady says:

    Sex… I love
    Torture in it… Ion fancy
    Going at it all day. ..Bores me
    Nyc1 TM

  6. Iyke David says:

    Nice one, the truth is that am among those that can never get enough of it
    Like TM, I got the best of it from my last and current woman,but now while am still craving for it the more,her libido is some how whining down.
    Now what do I do?

    • Dang, I’ve been thinking on this comment for two days now, iyke.
      What do you do?
      The best answer I’ve got is: hang in there.
      It’s the age factor for us women. The men can keep going, sometimes even gets better, with age but we start “loosing it”. And what’s a man to do but hang in there for his woman?
      Some say healthy living and certain fruits and foods are aphrodisiacs, I don’t know, but it never hurts to try something new.

  7. Abi says:

    as I no get experience make I kukuma just read comments and learn

  8. I didn’t enjoy the ones I have had, and I hope to enjoy it in marriage.

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